At some point in your life you have to learn when enough is enough. You have to come to the realization that people aren’t always who they turn out to be. Yes, sometimes people have bad intentions, and yes, sometimes people lie and say things that don’t always tend to be true. There are those people who come into your life and make your life just a little bit better, and a little bit easier. We are human, we make mistakes and sometimes we make big mistakes. Truth is, if we didn’t make these mistakes, there would be nothing to learn from. I, myself, have learned recently, that people come and go quite a bit. Maybe they came into your life to teach you a lesson, or maybe they came to learn something from you. Whatever the case may be, you have to brace yourself. Prepare yourself for laughter and tears. I say this because people form relationships of all kinds and sometimes they last, but sometimes they don’t.
There are going to be people that you meet that really speak a good game. They tell you things, and you believe them. You want to believe that people aren’t out to hurt you, or speak poorly of you for their own self-gain, yet they do. They speak poorly of you because of their own insecurities. Maybe they envy you. Maybe they are jealous. As you can see, I am speaking of them poorly. It is the easiest thing in the world to do. It is so much easier to hurt people, than to give love. Assuming is such an easy thing to do, and many of us do it well. We assume that because someone said something that it is true. We assume that because this person knew this person that what they say is factual. What we see with our eyes, takes over what we see in our hearts. What we hear with from this person or that person isn’t important.
Letting people in is one of the hardest things to do in our lives. We don’t like to be vulnerable. It is so difficult to open up and let our guards down, because we are afraid of getting hurt. That mentality is what gets us hurt. Let’s talk about the Law of Attraction for a minute. This is something I just learned recently myself. The Law of Attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life. This is mind blowing to me, because I can totally relate to it. The more and more I think about it, the more and more my thought process starts to change. Now I’m not saying that if you think of a million dollars, a million dollars will appear instantly, no, but the more positive you think, the more positives life will bring you.
Take a second and really think about how you think. For example, if you spill a cup of coffee on yourself at the start of your day, you will probably think “this is going to be a horrible day!” Stop! Change you’re thinking. Think of something that makes you happy. Think of puppies, or a vacation and focus on that. Be conscientious of your thoughts. It is said that a person has over 60,000 thoughts a day. You can’t control them all, but remind yourself that positive thinking brings positive experiences.